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My Journey With Performance Anxiety

My Journey With Performance Anxiety

When I was in seventh grade, I performed the second movement of the Mozart Bassoon Concerto at my local Solo & Ensemble festival. On that cold February morning, I remember sitting in the warmup room feeling uneasy about my fate.…
One Valley I Hope To Never Revisit

One Valley I Hope To Never Revisit

At one point early in my career, I was a finalist for seven collegiate teaching positions in one fall hiring cycle. I do not wear this fact as a badge of honor…. The first five places didn’t want me. Five…
How To Achieve Work/Life Integration

How To Achieve Work/Life Integration

I am so tired of the words work/life balance! Those words imply that my work and my life are not mutually exclusive things that I do. Using the words in that way also suggests that there is somehow the possibility…
My Advice On Self-Promotion For Musicians

My Advice On Self-Promotion For Musicians

As someone whose job it is to regularly work with the next generation of great musicians to help them build a thriving, sustainable career, I am constantly thinking about ways to help emerging artists thrive. One way to channel the…
How showing up on Clubhouse got me to SXSW

How showing up on Clubhouse got me to SXSW

I have long held the belief that simply showing up accounts for about 80% of my success.  Showing up, being curious, and listening louder than I speak has always opened doors that enabled me to take the next steps in my career. …
Stop Letting Time Confetti Ruin Your Day

Stop Letting Time Confetti Ruin Your Day

Some days I get pulled in so many different directions, I don’t do anything well. When I multitask, I can’t focus, I get stressed out, and it often takes me longer to accomplish a task than if I had been…
Read this before you search for your next job

Read this before you search for your next job

50.5 million people left their jobs for something else in 2022.  I suspect that most of them took the leap because the job they had did not bring meaning to their lives.  The average person will spend over 90,000 hours…
How To Find Some Healthy Alone Time

How To Find Some Healthy Alone Time

I’m a pretty outgoing person and enjoy the company of others. Until recently, I assumed that meant I was an extrovert. Then, I took the Myers-Briggs Test, and one of the questions went something like this: “Are you energized by large…
How To Jumpstart Your Creative Career

How To Jumpstart Your Creative Career

In 2014, I wrote about 5 ways college students can jumpstart their careers in the arts and it is, by far, the most-read article I’ve ever written. The post is filled with evergreen content that is as relevant today as it was…
How I Stopped Letting Email Ruin My Life

How I Stopped Letting Email Ruin My Life

Email is probably the single biggest thing that keeps me from achieving my long-term goals. Responding to email is like some kind of warped video game. I often feel that if I can get my inbox down to zero I…
Musicians Know How To Play The Long Game

Musicians Know How To Play The Long Game

Musicians know how to play the long game. Their deep pursuit of perfection and bringing beautiful things into the world puts them on the relentless path of trying to attain the unattainable. Their hero’s journey is one of many ups…
Five Tips To Help You Avoid Burnout

Five Tips To Help You Avoid Burnout

Burnout is a real thing, especially for creatives! The combination of a high, irregular workload, constant pressure to create at the highest level, and financial instability associated with the work, makes creatives incredibly susceptible to being over-extended. Author Anne Hellen Anderson recently wrote…
30 One-Sentence Financial Stability Tips For Creatives

30 One-Sentence Financial Stability Tips For Creatives

Finding financial stability can be a game-changer.  Here are 30 one-sentence tips (with links) to help you take the steps necessary to find stability and build a longer financial runway to create.  Here’s How I Help Musicians Find Financial Stability. …
How To Build Up An Emergency Fund

How To Build Up An Emergency Fund

When I was 28 I had an absurd amount of debt. For years I struggled to get ahead. I got to that point because I spent most of my 20s investing in myself and my career. I took out a…
How To Adopt A Practice Of Digital Minimalism

How To Adopt A Practice Of Digital Minimalism

Digital Minimalism is a philosophy of technology use in which you focus your online time on a small number of carefully selected and optimized activities that strongly support things you value, and then happily miss out on everything else. ―…
This Is How I Tackle Financial Risk

This Is How I Tackle Financial Risk

Risk is the four-letter word creatives would rather not mention out loud. The path of a creative comes with a lot of financial risk and it can take years to build a foundation that allows them to truly feel like…
I’m The Worst At Self-Compassion

I’m The Worst At Self-Compassion

Self-compassion is hard for me. Once or twice a month I lay in bed hours after I had hoped to fall asleep, replaying a moment from the day I desperately wanted to go differently. I am brutal on myself. It…
The Creator Economy Is A Gamechanger

The Creator Economy Is A Gamechanger

There has never been a better time for creatives to be alive. Less than ten years ago, creatives had to be discovered by someone in their field and identified as talented in order to have a shot at making it…
How I Help Creatives Find Financial Stability

How I Help Creatives Find Financial Stability

Here’s a question that came from one of my readers: As an artist 6 years into my career, I am making things work both financially and artistically, but I continue to be interested in finding creative work that allows me…
It’s Ok To Be Average (Sometimes)

It’s Ok To Be Average (Sometimes)

As a Creative, one of the biggest challenges I face is that I want everything I do to be perfect. The best. Better than everyone else. Anything but average. This is a learned experience from my time in the studio…
Three simple steps to a productive week

Three simple steps to a productive week

During the pandemic, my definition of a productive workweek changed. With extra time on my hands, I had time to reflect on what was truly important to me in my life, and guess what, spending extra time on my work…
Finding Meaning During The Great Resignation

Finding Meaning During The Great Resignation

Millions of members of our workforce left their jobs during the great resignation.  I suspect many left because they didn’t find their work meaningful.  Work without meaning is one of the biggest reasons creatives want to make a change in…
Control What You Can Control

Control What You Can Control

In many ways, the start of 2022 feels a lot like a repeat of the last two years. Whether it’s the pandemic, our unstable political system, or even the environment, so many things in this new year seem to be…
Redefine Success In 2022

Redefine Success In 2022

New year, new you! Every January, we are flooded with the promise of rejuvenation and excitement around ways we can attack our life and career goals in the year ahead. Included in that mindset is a call for resolutions and…
Balancing Your Career And Your Family.

Balancing Your Career And Your Family.

  Striking a balance between your career and your family takes discipline, understanding, and commitment. I find that traditional career development discussions typically focus solely on career advancement, while time with family is expected to simply “fit” into work life.…
This Is How I Avoid Decision Fatigue

This Is How I Avoid Decision Fatigue

  One of the biggest challenges I have with work/life balance is that I get overwhelmed quickly with my to-do list and I don’t know where to begin. ⁣ I started using the Eisenhower Matrix to better understand the work.…
How To Spend Your Stimulus Funding

How To Spend Your Stimulus Funding

I love helping creatives make transformational decisions that give them the best shot at pursuing the life and career they desire.  In a matter of days, many of you will likely be receiving the latest round of stimulus funding from…
Understanding The Rule Of 72

Understanding The Rule Of 72

The rule of 72 is an awesome little formula and a constant reminder that my actions today will have a tremendous impact on the future version of me when it comes to investing and saving. ⁣⁣While I can’t (necessarily) control…
My Top Tips Of 2020

My Top Tips Of 2020

I publish a newsletter called 5 Tips For The Unrelenting 20-Something every Tuesday. This page is a compilation of all of the links I shared in 2020. Each newsletter is packed with quick, easily digestible tips that enable you to…
The Road That Lies Ahead

The Road That Lies Ahead

In what will likely go down as the longest year of my life, I am so ready for 2020 to be over! We’re going to look back at the pandemic as a very short moment in the course of our…
Ten Steps to a Personal Strategy Statement

Ten Steps to a Personal Strategy Statement

Yesterday, I wrote about the steps I was compelled to take in my career to develop a better work/life balance for myself. The post contained big picture thoughts on how to make change in your life and career. Today’s post…
Career Strategy for Artists

Career Strategy for Artists

In 2010, I had the dream.  My wife and I owned a house and had recently welcomed our first child into the world. In addition, my work life was great. I had a tenure track position teaching bassoon at Bowling…
Thoughts on how to serve your community.

Thoughts on how to serve your community.

As artists, we often feel a calling to serve the community in which we live. Showing up to serve can be, and is some of, the most fulfilling and rewarding work we can do. This can be incredibly difficult as…
How to set a budget as an artist.

How to set a budget as an artist.

Earlier this week, I wrote about the frustrations of setting a personal budget. Here is a step by step process for budgeting as an artist. Rules of Engagement:  Knowledge is power — Understanding where you spend your money from month…
The Frustration of Personal Budgeting.

The Frustration of Personal Budgeting.

It can be incredibly frustrating to hear someone give you advice on your finances. Although well intentioned, the solution often floated is that you simply need to live within your means in order to find financial stability. Of course this…
5 Books for artists seeking stability

5 Books for artists seeking stability

In general, I tend to be more action oriented than planning oriented, which explains the post I wrote yesterday. Instead of contemplating the change I’d like to see in my life or career, I often find myself identifying actionable steps…
Artistic Micro-Movements

Artistic Micro-Movements

Last January, I wrote this post in response the inauguration of #45. The premise behind the post was simple: What small things can you do today to make a difference in the world? In January and February, our collective efforts…
Everyone Should Major In Music!

Everyone Should Major In Music!

For decades, we have been told not to major in music. We’ve been told that there aren’t any jobs, and the jobs that do exist have job satisfaction rates in the gutter. When are institutions of higher learning going to…
Six ways to tackle your college loans

Six ways to tackle your college loans

“The most important investment you can make is in yourself.” -Warren Buffett Yesterday, I wrote this post about things to consider when taking out College loans. As Warren Buffett mentions in the quote above, I still believe that taking out…
College Loans and Majoring in the Arts

College Loans and Majoring in the Arts

This morning, I read this CNBC article, which discussed the fact that student loans have gone up over 150% in the last decade. The article states that “The average outstanding college loan balance is now $34,144, up 62 percent over…